Lot 48: June 2017

June 26, 2017

how to declutter your life

happy monday everyone! have a special treat for you today! i am having steph from not entirely perfect guest post on the blog today! she is posting on a topic that has really helped me out in the past! i didn't know where to start and organizing can be so daunting.  she also gives tips for organizing if you are sharing space with other people! steph is the girl to help you out! should mention that this is not a sponsored post and that steph does not get compensation for the products listed below. take it away steph!


I know you were expecting Lauren today, so I hope I'm not too much of a disappointment.  I'm Steph and I blog over at Not Entirely Perfect.  In fact, Lauren is there today, so be sure to head over to read her post too.  If you've never been to my blog before, I talk mostly about organizing and simplifying your life, as well as just sharing general stories about my life and tons of photos of my dog.  But today, I want to focus on one organizing project - out of control bathroom cabinets and drawers.  It's something I helped Lauren with in the past and she's still enjoying her organized and decluttered space, so I want to share those same tips and tricks with you. (i really really am!- lauren ;))

Start With Decluttering

Cabinets, drawers, even if you want a more organized shower, you start with decluttering.  Remove absolutely everything from your space.  Yes, even if you swear you use everything and nothing is expired.  If that were true, the area wouldn't be messy.  Take it all out and spread it out on the floor - it's going to get worse before it gets better.  And then study every item.  Bathroom space is limited and precious.  This isn't an attic or a storage unit.  A product needs to earn it's keep here and truly deserve it's spot.  Start with the easy stuff by asking whether it even belongs in the bathroom.  If you have towels, could they move to a hallway linen closet?  Medicines should never be in the bathroom, the humidity of the shower spoils them faster, so move those too.  Next, double check expiration dates.  That's another easy way to clear stuff out - if it's bad, toss it.  Finally, the hardest step, keep only the best.  If you have 3 hairsprays but always use 1 favorite, and re-buy the favorite before even touching the other two, just let them go.  The feeling of having backups is comforting, I know, but you won't use them so just set them free.  You can donate these things and they will be very much appreciated.  (you can donate them to womens shelters) If you find yourself saying 'but what if,' let it go, you don't need it.  And if you start thinking 'but one day I'll use it,' imagine me next to you with an eyebrow raised asking 'will you really?'

Make Things Easy To Put Away

Putting things away is key to an organized bathroom.  Clutter attracts clutter - you leave one thing on the counter and it'll multiply by the time you come back the next day, as if by magic.  Also true if you just toss 30 things under the sink without a thought.  When things get messy and you have products all over your bathroom, it's because they're too hard to put away.  People want to design perfect systems based on how they think bathroom storage should work, but that's backwards.  Design for how you actually live.  If you want and need the item, you'll get it out, there's no reason to focus on making it super easy to access.  It's the putting away part that you need to make as easy as possible on yourself.  It might look nice in theory to have toothbrushes lined up in a drawer, but if you always leave it out on the counter because the drawer space is limited and crammed with hair ties, you're making it too hard.  Get yourself a cup on the counter for the toothbrushes and be done with it.  Same with heat styling tools.  People just adore the idea of wrapping the cord around the product and hanging it from a command hook on the inside of the cabinet door, under the sink.  I'm sure you've seen that.  Great in theory, but are you really about to wrap a plastic covered wire around a curling iron that was just 350 degrees?  Nope, you're going to leave it sitting out until it cools and then forget about it until the next time you use it and meanwhile it clutters your counter top.  Stop.  Get yourself a heat protecting cover that you can shove your iron into while it's still hot so you can put it away immediately, in a drawer or bin.

So after you declutter and have the pile of everything you want to put back into your bathroom, completely forget about what the designer magazine says you should do and think about how you actually live your life and design your 'put it away' system from that.  If you used a whole bunch of your products and tools and then suddenly your husband announces his mom will be over in 10 minutes, how would you naturally put everything away so you knew where it was when you came back?  (And I don't mean throwing everything under the sink and locking the door!)  Daily use items get the prime real estate, of course, like the medicine cabinet and top drawer.  Lesser used items go under the sink (we think bending is easy in theory but we don't like to do it in reality.)  People like to say that 'past performance isn't indicative of future results' but in this case, it absolutely is.  Don't fight your nature.  Maybe you want so badly for that toothbrush to lay in the medicine cabinet but if it's rarely ever in there, stop forcing it.

Group Like Items Together

I'm a big fan of 'containerizing' and grouping like items together.  If you have a bunch of hair products, it's so much easier to put them in one bin and then access that bin when you're styling your hair.  But I never recommend shopping for containers as a first step, which is why I didn't mention it until now - it should be the last thing you do.  Two reasons for that: (1) you have no idea what's going to fit the space until you're done decluttering and organizing.  You don't know how many products you'll end up with or what area you're going to put them in.  (2) You might find perfect containers you already own and forgot about.  They may be stuck in your linen cabinet or under all the scattered bottles, saving you the money and effort of having to buy anything new.

Having worked with a lot of different size storage areas in my life, I do have a few recommendations if do find yourself in the market for new organizational systems.  The one I recommended to Lauren was this system on Amazon. (it really helped and it fit and worked in the first apartment and also when i moved!) It's thinner, width-wise, than most drawers, so it's ideal for under bathroom and kitchen sinks where you often have piping in the way of installing anything bigger.  It's also perfect for renters or anyone not willing to have to screw in a permanent system, which is how a lot of the drawers sold at places like the Container Store operate.  Since it has the drawer, it's easy to pull open and access all your items, and you can stack them to use up all vertical space.  I also love that it has a top, so you can just place tall items on top if you didn't want to stack another drawer.  Under my own bathroom sink I have a simple stacking bin system because I have less products, but I have this exact drawer set under my kitchen sink.

Some people prefer bins over drawers, because they like to remove the entire bin out from under the sink, use the products in it, and then return the entire thing back under.  I understand the appeal of that system too - if you use fake tan or a lot of hair styling products, this would be the best solution for you.  You can have just one bin for the fake tan supplies that you pull out only when you're going to use them, and then stick everything back when you're done.  You know everything is together, and it never gets lost in the shuffle in a drawer system where it's mixed with other products.  Also a great system for multiple people sharing one bathroom - everyone gets a bin and you may only keep what fits in your bin.  There's a lot of great bin options, and I recommend getting a couple smaller ones over one big one.  A big one will leave you will the same messiness problem.  I have two of these stacking ones, because I don't keep too much under my sink.  Whatever you pick, just make sure they clean easily in case of product spills.

I also recommend organizers for your drawers, even if they're small.  I got these on Amazon for really cheap and they help a lot in keeping things corralled.  There's a small box for my hair ties, a long one for my toothpaste, etc.  When everything has a home, it's easier to remember to return it to that place.

I hope these tips help you get your bathroom in order, once and for all.  If you decide to tackle your cabinets and drawers, take a picture and tag Lauren and me on Instagram, we'd love to see!  Happy organizing.

thanks so much steph! you can check her out on her blog, pinterest and twitter!

June 19, 2017

palm springs

we spent the weekend in palm springs. we stayed at the most amazing resort that we always stay at any time my family visits palm springs, mariotts desert springs villas ii. i always feel like a kardashian whenever i stay there because it is so nice.

my oldest sister and i were the only children able to come partaaaay so i got to play with my sweet new niece vienna and my nephew and two of my other nieces.

we had so much fun. on saturday, we did an activity i had planned where went to the cabazon dinosaurs, (thanks taza for the idea!) and it was such a hit. the kids pined for rocks which they loved. they had their own little bags of gemstones and loved finding them in them in the little river.

they did get a little scared climbing up the t-rex but true to my nephew lincolns form, he thought it was the coolest thing ever once we were done. taran and i werent scared! my brother in law was being hilarious and was not helping his children be calm. he is a doctor and as we climbed was saying things like "oh look thats who the dinosaur last ate!" and as we climbed up its throat he said "lets climb up his esophogus!" we were laughing so hard.
here i am in the gift shop ruling over all the dinos. and my niece too. look at those cheeks! #ballers
the resort has this amazing pool that we spent nearly the entire time at. the kids loved to be on the edge and then jump into our arms. they would squeal and laugh and it made my heart oh so happy. it showed how trusting they are of us and how safe they feel with us.
and dont even get me started on how obsessed my nieces are with taran. they are in love with him. ❤️ if he went to the other end of the pool, they would ask where he was or my little 2 year old capri would say "taran!" in her little adorable voice. i love how vocal she is getting.
we ended the weekend with steak and ice cream cake for fathers day. social media is alaays overloaded with everyone proclaiming their love for their fathers that day that i feel its pointless for me to yell from the rooftops how great my dad is because everyone else is yelling so youdly voice gets lost. but i love my dad. hes my best friend and i couldnt be luckier to have grown up with such a man as my teacher, protector and father.
hope you all had a great weekend as well!

June 13, 2017

june goals

i am more stressed than i have ever been with the exception of being a dispatcher. i constantly feel like two elephants are sitting on my chest. i feel inadequate, lost, uneducacated and completely overwhelemd as a writer.

i spend all my free time meeting new people, learning as much as i can and writing. lately its been reading more than writing. reading books on writing and readjng scripts really helps me to understand what works and what doesnt work in a scipt. and that is just the surface of what i do to work hard to be a better writer and to break into this business.

i usually dont do goal posts but i have a lot of goals i have set for myself and need to write them down so i actually do them!

there is so much to do, so much to learn, i a so overwhelmed. hopefully writing small goals instead of looking at the mountain of work i need to do will make this easier and less stressful.

1. find a study group for my aaron sorkin class. this is proving to be nearly impossible. the thing with this is that everyone is on different lessons in the class because its online. plus, people live in different places of the world so that makes it difficult as well.

2. finish aristotle's poetics. this is a book that lays out basic foundation of plot. its really really thin and is verg essential to understanding the basics of plot. its bery helpful.

3. get to lesson 25 in aaron sorkins class. i am not going as fast as i want through the lessons and writing this doen will help ke speed it up.

4. find a writing partner to write scenes with me per writing assignments. i am on my way to this a little bit as ive been talking to several people about writing with me although they dont really seem interested they seem open to the idea.

5. go to a writers networking event. i did this and got 11 contacts! it was so great and i have been working those contacts since and it has been great!

6. write the two scenes a week challenge for both shonda rhimes class and aaron sorkins class. this will be fun and help get my wheels turning.

7. finish those scripts my producer friend gave me. this should actually be first on the list. read and read and read scripts. im learning so much by reading.

i know this post should have been done earlier in the month but hey im busy so im writing this goal list two weeks in.

what are your goals this month?

June 12, 2017

and he gave them healthcare

with father's day coming up, i wanted to share some stories about my dad. or really, i just wanted to brag.

i think you all know my dad is a doctor but what you dont know is that nearly 20 years ago he started a free medical clinic.
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my mom and dad at the annual clinic gala.

20 years ago he was in a medical society meeting when he first heard the County where we lived had a doubled rate of uninsured people than in the rest of the state of utah. 16% of people were uninsured in washington County, as opposed to the 8% in the greater salt lake area. my dad being the amazing man he is, decided to do something about it.

a few months later he came back to the medical society with a plan to start a Doctors Free Clinic; a place where people could receive medical care completely for free.

the demographic my dad was aiming for when he opened the clinic were the people who made too much for welfare but not enough to buy insurance. my dad said the clinic is “a community solution to a national problem.”

he first started the clinic at the homeless shelter. the clinic became so busy that they outgrew the space they had rented very fast.

my dad put an ad in the paper asking for free land in exchange for a tax break. within a month, he had received a piece of land worth half a million dollars for free. then he bgan raising funds to build a clinic and succeeded his goal of $70,000 and raised $80,000.

a close friend of our family owns a very large construction company and my dad asked him if he was willing to help build the clinc. the company and its workers went above and beyond to make the clinic a nice place. upon completion, the clinic was graciously billed for only $80,000 for a $250,000 job.

the clinic serves so many people in my hometown. these are old stats, but in 2012, the clinic saw more than 12,000 patients and currently costs $240,000 a year to run.

several years ago, my dad decided to expand. the clinic was "filling like gangbusters." he approached his construction friend asked if he would “do it again.” the friend did indeed do it again, donating $260,000 of labor and materials. The add-on was completed six summers ago and included five more exam rooms, a mental health wing, and offices.

several years ago my dad won a national award for the clinic, not that he cares about awards. i am so proud of him and honored to be his daughter. i always stress what to get him for fathers day because he is the best dad a girl could ask for.

thanks for allowing me to share this story with you!

June 5, 2017

my 27 birthday

my 27th birthday was the best birthday of my life! and i do think it had a lot to with it being my first birthday in LA.  

when its my birhday, i make it a whole weekend.  party alll weekend, ya'll! my birthday always fall on memorial day weekend so thats easy to plan. 

the weekend started out by my kind coworker friend buying me my favorite ice cream cone from the food truck outside our work!  it was so sweet and was the best way to kick off the weekend!

the first thing we did was on saturday we went to this amazing pizza place that i had been dying to go to because i heard all the start go to it.  sorry, the pictures are from my insta stories.  i forgot to take real pictures!

when i first lived in LA, i drove past this restaurant every single day on my way to work! 

the room was so pretty! look at that staircase! but yes, i guess the other restaurant is where the stars eat! oh well.  it was delicious anyway! 

did you guys know i don't like cheese?  i always get pizza with no cheese.  i know its weird but i love it!

taran loooves cheese on his pizza though!!
the next thing we did was go to santa monica beach to have cake by the ocean just like in the song!

this proved to be much harder than you would think.  

with the wind, the cake got very sandy.  we took cute pictures and then tried to eat it but really we just got a mouthful of sand.  we put our feet in the water but our we weren't there to really play in the water, just to take pictures! 

the next thing we did was go to au fudge.  this is the restaurant jessica biel owns and i had been trying to go there for weeks.  i wanted to go there for a birthday dessert with friends but with everyone's schedules, it didn't work out.  the restaurant was so cute!

they had this sign at the back of the restaurant with some games you could play and a photo booth.  

i did an insta video of the restaurant and it is too cute to miss so i combined the little videos so you can see them here.  it really is the cutest restaurant ever!

i asked the waiter if jessica ever comes in and he says only for the bi-monthly owners meeting.  life would have been made if i got to see her!

i got this italian soda that was incredible.

on sunday my sister in law and her husband and two little boys came over for dinner.  we had burgers and she made me the most amazing cake! 

look at that! isn't she incredible!  it was too pretty to eat!  i loved the hollywood theme as it was my first birthday in hollywood!  she was so sweet to make it for me!

and she gave me the most thoughtful, fun cute gifts!  i am so lucky to have her as my sister in law!

on monday, my actual birthday, we went to catalina island! we had a total blast! 

i had been to the camping side of catalina island for a weeklong class trip in sixth grade and to avalon with my family for one day before and taran had been for one day one a port stop on a cruise.  we were excited to explore together.

tickets on the boat were half price because it was my birthday! holla!

pulling into the island! 

in high school, my friends and i would make each other signs that said "its my birthday" with our phone numbers on the bottom.  we would make each other wear the signs the whole birthday day and we would get random calls from guys singing happy birthday on our voice mail.  it was so much fun.  i told taran this and how much i loved that tradition and how you know me, how i love being the center of attention, how i wanted something that shouted it loud and proud that it was my birthday! so we went to the drugstore and made this getup! 

there was this incredible candy shop that blew my mind and i wanted everything in it.  

it was one of the best parts of the day.

i thought this was an old castle or something but it was just a casino.  i don't know why i thought that. 

we rented bikes and rode around the island and went to an arcade and played games but i don't have any pictures of that.

the last thing we did was a boat ride where half of it was under water.  we got to see a ton of fish. 

and then i remembered.  fish freak me out.  they are slimy and gross and why are they always looking at me? they just freak me out!

not that i didn't enjoy the boat ride but i kind of wanted to enjoy it from above, on the top level of the boat.  it was still fun though! 

it really was the best birthday of my life! i will remember it forever!

27 is going to be a great year!!

thanks for all the sweet birthday wishes!